diff --git a/81.md b/81.md
index eecca707..faf81c31 100644
--- a/81.md
+++ b/81.md
@@ -6,21 +6,22 @@ Relationship Status
 
 `draft` `optional`
 
-Event `kind:30382` documents a "Relationship Status" between two keys and uses private and public tags to describe that relationship. 
+This NIP defines two new event kinds (`30382` and `30383`) to document the relationship between two keys. 
 
-Since statuses change over time, this event is defined as a _parameterized replaceable event_ with a single `d` tag that identifies the target key. 
+Both kinds offer public and private tags to describe that relationship. Private tags are JSON Stringified, [NIP-44](44.md)-encrypted to the signer's keys and placed inside the `.content` of the event. 
 
-When the relationship is public, the `d` tag is the same as the `p`-tag.
+### Public Relationship Status
+
+Event kind `30382` is used when the relationship itself is public, with the `d` tag receiving the public key each target key.
 
 ```js
 {
   "kind": 30382,
   "tags": [
     ["d", "e88a691e98d9987c964521dff60025f60700378a4879180dcbbb4a5027850411"],
-    ["n", "Follow"],
+    ["n", "Follows"],
     ["n", "Bitcoiners"],
     ["n", "6064460175057025"]
-    ["p", "e88a691e98d9987c964521dff60025f60700378a4879180dcbbb4a5027850411", "<relay>"],
   ],
   "content": nip44Encrypt(JSON.stringify([
     ["petname", "NVK (Coldcard)"],
@@ -30,9 +31,7 @@ When the relationship is public, the `d` tag is the same as the `p`-tag.
 }
 ```
 
-The private tags are JSON Stringified, [NIP-44](44.md)-encrypted to the signer's keys and placed inside the `.content` of the event. 
-
-`petname` SHOULD be used instead of the person's display name in all interfaces
+`petname` SHOULD be used instead of the person's display name in all interfaces.
 
 ### Relationship Categories
 
@@ -54,13 +53,14 @@ List `codes` can be human readable or not. A new event kind named "Unbound List
 
 ### Private Relationship Status
 
-For relationships that MUST remain private, a deterministic `d`-Tag is calculated using [NIP-44](44.md)'s `hkdf` function and a `sha256` hash between the signer's private key and the pubkey of the `p` tag.
+For relationships that MUST remain private, Event kind `30383` uses a similar structure but with a hashed `d` tag using [NIP-44](44.md)'s `hkdf` function. 
 
 ```js
 {
-  "kind": 30382,
+  "kind": 30383,
   "tags": [
     ["d", sha256(hkdf(private_key, salt: 'nip81') || "<pubkey>")],
+    ["n", "6064460175057025"],
   ],
   "content": nip44Encrypt(JSON.stringify([
     ["p", "<pubkey>", "relay"],