diff --git a/81.md b/81.md
index 150f6783..74495f58 100644
--- a/81.md
+++ b/81.md
@@ -55,11 +55,11 @@ For private cases, a new event kind named "Event Set Names" (`kind:10008`) uses
 
 ### Private Relationship Status
 
-For relationships that must remain private (e.g private follows, client lists, etc), the event kind `30383` uses a similar structure but with a hashed `d` tag using [NIP-44](44.md)'s `hkdf` function. 
+For relationships that must remain private (e.g private follows, client lists, etc), the event kind `31383` uses a similar structure but with a hashed `d` tag using [NIP-44](44.md)'s `hkdf` function. 
 
 ```js
 {
-  "kind": 30383,
+  "kind": 31383,
   "tags": [
     ["d", sha256(hkdf(private_key, salt: 'nip81') || "<pubkey>")],
     ["n", "6064460175057025"],
diff --git a/README.md b/README.md
index c82b000f..bc0419c9 100644
--- a/README.md
+++ b/README.md
@@ -172,11 +172,11 @@ They exist to document what may be implemented by [Nostr](https://github.com/nos
 | `30311`       | Live Event                 | [53](53.md)              |
 | `30315`       | User Statuses              | [38](38.md)              |
 | `30382`       | Public Relationship Status | [81](81.md)              |
-| `30383`       | Private Relationship Status| [81](81.md)              |
 | `30402`       | Classified Listing         | [99](99.md)              |
 | `30403`       | Draft Classified Listing   | [99](99.md)              |
 | `30617`       | Repository announcements   | [34](34.md)              |
 | `30818`       | Wiki article               | [54](54.md)              |
+| `31382`       | Private Relationship Status| [81](81.md)              |
 | `31922`       | Date-Based Calendar Event  | [52](52.md)              |
 | `31923`       | Time-Based Calendar Event  | [52](52.md)              |
 | `31924`       | Calendar                   | [52](52.md)              |