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From: Vitor Pamplona <vitor@vitorpamplona.com>
Date: Mon, 4 Sep 2023 11:35:30 -0400
Subject: [PATCH] First Draft

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+NIP-81
+======
+
+Relationship Status
+-------------------
+
+`draft` `optional` `author:vitorpamplona`
+
+## Abstract
+
+Creates a replaceable event to assert the level of trust from the author to any other pubkey. The wise-spread use of these statuses between pubkeys is not ideal for Kind 3 or NIP-51 list structures. 
+
+# Relationship Status Event
+
+A special event with `kind:30382` "Relationship Status Event" is defined as a _parameterized replaceable event_ with a single `d` tag as the target pubkey. The other tags are stringified, NIP-44 encrypted and placed inside the `.content` of the event. 
+
+For example:
+
+```js
+{
+  "kind": 30382,
+  "tags": [
+    ["d", "612ae..e610f"],
+  ],
+  "content": "<NIP-44 encrypted Stringified TAG-List(
+    ["status", "< Known Face, Contact, Following, Coworker, Friend, Partner, Family, Extended family, Trusted, Competitor, Traitor, Used to Know, Scammer, NSFW, Unkown, etc>"],
+    ["nickname", "< nickname to be used instead of the person's name in all interfaces >"]
+    ["summary", "<Summary of the relationship>"],
+  )",
+  ...other fields
+}
+```
+
+Status MUST be a case-sensitive displayble category name with the expecation to group users by it. 
+
+Profile screens MAY display the summary of the relationship and allow the user to change the tags of this event.
+
+Clients MAY filter by `kind:30382` to determine how to assemble feeds, group messages and when to display content. 
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