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@@ -1,18 +1,41 @@
 NIP-81
 ======
 
-Private Relationship Status
----------------------------
+Relationship Status
+-------------------
 
 `draft` `optional`
 
-A new `kind:30382` event documents a "Private Relationship Status" between two users of the network. 
+Event `kind:30382` documents a "Relationship Status" between two pubkeys and uses private and public tags to enhance the description of that relationship.
 
-It is defined as a _parameterized replaceable event_ with a single `d` tag as a random UUID per pubkey. An optional `n` tag adds the target key to an unbound list.
+Since statuses change over time, this event is defined as a _parameterized replaceable event_ with a single `d` tag as a random UUID per pubkey. 
 
-The other tags are stringified, NIP-44-encrypted and placed inside the `.content` of the event. 
+Optional `n` tags add the target key to an unbound list.
 
-For example:
+The private tags are stringified, NIP-44-encrypted and placed inside the `.content` of the event. 
+
+Examples:
+
+Public Status
+
+```js
+{
+  "kind": 30382,
+  "tags": [
+    ["d", "<randomUUID>"],
+    ["n", "Clients"],
+    ["n", "Developers"],
+    ["p", "<pubkey>", "relay"],
+    ["trust_level", "1"],
+    ["nickname", "<My buddy>"],
+    ["summary", "<Summary of the relationship>"]
+  ],
+  "content": "",
+  // ...other fields
+}
+```
+
+Private Status
 
 ```js
 {
@@ -21,12 +44,12 @@ For example:
     ["d", "<randomUUID>"],
     ["n", "Clients"]
   ],
-  "content": "<NIP-44 encrypted Stringified TAG-List(
+  "content": nip44Encrypt(JSON.stringify([
     ["p", "<pubkey>", "relay"]
     ["nickname", "<My buddy>"]
     ["summary", "<Summary of the relationship>"],
     ["nip82secret", "<secret used to decrypt medical data for this pubkey>"]
-  )",
+  ])),
   ...other fields
 }
 ```
@@ -36,3 +59,29 @@ For example:
 Profile screens MAY display the summary of the relationship and allow the user to change the tags of this event.
 
 Clients MAY filter by `kind:30382`, with or without `n` tags, to determine how to assemble feeds, group messages, and when to display content. 
+
+### Private `n`-tags
+
+Clients MAY hide human readable `n`-tags behind a code and list their code maps in `kind:10007` using the `n_name` tag. 
+
+```js
+{
+  "kind": 10007,
+  "content": nip44Encrypt(JSON.stringify([
+    ["n_name", "<Code used in other events>", "<Name>"],
+    ["n_name", "Clients", "Clients"] // public list of my Clients
+    ["n_name", "6064460175057025", "Idiot"] // private list of idiots
+  ])),
+  // ...other fields
+}
+```
+
+### Deterministic `d`-Tag. 
+
+For private use cases that must contain deterministic d-Tags, the recommendation is to use NIP-44's `hkdf` function and use a hash between the user's private key and the pubkey of the `p` tag.
+
+```
+nip81_key = hkdf(private_key, salt: 'nip81') 
+bobs_tag = sha256(nip81_key || bobs_pub)
+kates_tag = sha256(nip81_key || kates_pub)
+```
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